..and they call her Rolihlahla

Dream it
Dare it
Do it

Yes. I am my own worst enemy. 

Sometimes we are our greatest enemy and biggest obstacle.


Yes. I am my own worst enemy. 

Sometimes we are our greatest enemy and biggest obstacle.

(via thewildsyde)

Be yourself; no base imitator of another, but your best self. There is something which you can do better than another. Listen to the inward voice and bravely obey that. Do the things at which you are great, not what you were never made for. Ralph Waldo Emerson (via annapviola)

(via thewildsyde)

We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”

I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.

Let our scars fall in love.

Galway Kinnell (via charmrose)

(Source: feellng, via thewildsyde)

Live and Shine through the spirits of those who understood, and remind yourself that you are not alone…

Live and Shine through the spirits of those who understood, and remind yourself that you are not alone

(Source: paintyhands, via alyssaszarkowski)

Sunday Lesson


1. You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it’s the only thing you are sure to keep for the rest of your life.

2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called “Life on Planet Earth”. Every person or incident is the Universal Teacher.

3. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of experimentation. “Failures” are as much a part of the process as “success.”

4. A lesson is repeated until learned. It is presented to you in various forms until you learn it — then you can go on to the next lesson.

5. If you don’t learn easy lessons, they get harder. External problems are a precise reflection of your internal state. When you clear inner obstructions, your outside world changes. Pain is how the universe gets your attention.

6. You will know you’ve learned a lesson when your actions change. Wisdom is practice. A little of something is better than a lot of nothing.

7. “There” is no better than “here”. When your “there” becomes a “here” you will simply obtain another “there” that again looks better than “here.”

8. Others are only mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another unless it reflects something you love or hate in yourself.

9. Your life is up to you. Life provides the canvas; you do the painting. Take charge of your life — or someone else will.

10. You always get what you want. Your subconscious rightfully determines what energies, experiences, and people you attract — therefore, the only foolproof way to know what you want is to see what you have. There are no victims, only students.

11. There is no right or wrong, but there are consequences. Moralizing doesn’t help. Judgments only hold the patterns in place. Just do your best.

12. Your answers lie inside you. Children need guidance from others; as we mature, we trust our hearts, where the Laws of Spirit are written. You know more than you have heard or read or been told. All you need to do is to look, listen, and trust.

13. You will forget all this.

14. You can remember any time you wish.

- Unknown

My New Mantra

This is My body
This is Me
And I’m gonna Love Me
From the Inside Out
Because I’am Beautiful 
Because I’am Strong 
Because I’am Beautiful
Because I’am Strong 

“There are two ways to wash the dishes. The first is to wash the dishes in order to have clean dishes and the second is to wash the dishes to wash the dishes.”

Thich Nhat Hanh

So Ive been kind of hating on love these last few days, not really feeling like I should continue to believe, and then I log onto my favourite blog ‘PaintyHands’ <3 to read this little gem. Thanks for reblogging this Lulu, thank you alyssajeanszarkowki for posting it originally, and thanks to all the lovers out their who never give up.

You know what’s wrong with you, Miss Whoever-You-Are? You’re chicken, you’ve got no guts. You’re afraid to stick out your chin and say, “Okay, life’s a fact, people do fall in love, people do belong to each other, because that’s the only chance anybody’s got for real happiness.” You call yourself a free spirit, a wild thing, and you’re terrified somebody’s going to stick you in a cage. Well, baby, you’re already in that cage. You built it yourself. And it’s not bounded in the west by Tulip, Texas, or in the east by Somaliland. It’s wherever you go. Because no matter where you run, you just end up running into yourself. Breakfast at Tiffany’s (via alyssajeanszarkowski)

(Source: alyssaszarkowski, via paintyhands)


And whatdya wanna marry me for?So I can kiss ya anytime I want-Sweet Home Alabama  

And whatdya wanna marry me for?
So I can kiss ya anytime I want
-Sweet Home Alabama